Why the female logic seems to men the certain confused, difficult, multilevel and irrational conglomerate? Why what is obvious to men, appears secret behind seven seals for women, and simple things at the first (man's) sight it so are difficult for understanding?Matter is not that someone is cleverer or sillier. The matter is that the brain of men and women is simply arranged differently.
First, at men the bark of the big hemispheres which is responsible for the analysis, logic, comparative operations), at women – system (knowing emotional sphere, a hormonal background and instincts) is more developed.
Secondly, "strength" of men – the parietal areas of a bark which are responsible for orientation in space, at women – the frontal shares of a brain which are responsible for planning (for this reason women so like to plan – after all it is their strength).
And thirdly, at women much more neural communications between the right and left hemisphere, therefore the man can either feel, or think. Also it is very seldom capable of these two actions simultaneously while the woman can do all it in parallel.
On the one hand, it is convenient: the woman is capable, simultaneously stirring by a mobile phone with the girl-friend and stirring slowly with a borsch, to listen to radio, to solve сканворд, to drink coffee and to consider the uneasy matrimonial relations. On the other hand, as men either feel, or think – their channels do not block each other. Women have discomfiture: feelings as noise hindrances, sometimes extinguish reason.
Why so occurs? The matter is that the right and left hemispheres are connected by a bunch of nerves which is called as a calloused body. This "cable" allows one party of a brain to be informed with another and gives the chance to them to communicate. And so, according to researches of scientists of Jelsky university (in particular Roger Gorskogo), at women a calloused body more thickly, than at men, and they have on 30 % of more connections between the right and left hemisphere that is caused by a hormone an estrogen. Result of it is more fluent speech (sung in jokes «100 words in a second») and possibility of simultaneous performance of various operations for which different hemispheres are responsible.
Besides, estrogen influence presence большего quantities of "touch gauges» and consequently the nature becomes clearer than "female intuition» speaks also: after all at direct dialogue of people the perception on 70 % occurs at the expense of nonverbal (dumb) signals, about 20 % – at the expense of a tonality and only approximately 7-10 % – at the expense of actually information of words.
And it is clear: in the millenia of the woman were responsible for a home, for an establishment of emotional communications in a society – therefore the given skills have been perfected in perfection during evolution. It was necessary for man to concentrate first of all on a problem and its performance, instead of on different "concomitant factors" – frequently their men simply do not see.
Therefore women are most effective in sphere of personal contacts and where is weaker – in the world of the facts, after all there it is necessary to analyze, instead of интуичить. For example, quickly to make the decision in a difficult situation, to orient and correctly to pass in absolutely unfamiliar district, neatly to hit the mark, execute the difficult drawing – a prerogative of men. And here to execute laborious handwork, to remember great volume of the information, to reconcile relatives and instantly to calculate, at whom with whom the novel – in it is stronger than the woman.
Why, being mutually supplementing parts natural whole, men and women at times so unflatteringly respond about mental faculties each other?
All is simple: hostility of one to another speaks, first of all, dissimilarity (and people instinctively negatively concern to «not such», alien elements, seeing in not clear and other the latent threat). People, alas, quite often do not see advantages addition. Unfortunately, first of all they pay attention that divides them, grouping the near in a principle «such as I – not such, as I» (that is «-another's, good-bad») – in popular speech «all muzhiks – goats» and «all women – silly women» (both statements stand each other).
Really, owners of "typically man's mentality» and "typically female" have a brain so differently programmed that the general at them is only that they belong to one kind and there live on one planet, according to in the book «the Man and the woman» Allan and Barbara Piz.
Owners of "typically man's mind» possess strong logic, analytical abilities, eloquence, easily operate with figures, predict, do exact conclusions on the basis of the statistical data and almost are completely free from influence of emotions on conclusions. Those abilities can possess and the woman – then it testifies that man's hormones at it is more than norm.
And here people with «a female matrix» have high probability of display of not ordinary creative, musical abilities. Such people make decisions, being based on internal, unmotivated sensations, and well reveal presence of problems when there is a minimum of the data. They well cope with the problems demanding creative abilities and intuition. Testosteron at them the minimum, and here estrogen level – is high. (By the way, here the stereotype about nonsense of blondes whence has gone: a fair hair is an indicator of high level of a female hormone of an estrogen and, accordingly, purely female mentality far from the man's logic. The same that fact speaks that «gentlemen prefer blondes» – they as though more "woman", than all other individuals of a female).
It is considered that 80-85 % of men have mainly man's mentality, at 15-20 % mind to some extent it is minimised. About 10 % of women has man's mentality. However a quantity of people of both floors (approximately 5-10 %) possess a certain "average" device of thinking, that is have no expressed propensity neither to man's, nor to female stereotypes of behaviour and usually show flexibility of thinking that can appear the big advantage both in dialogue with men, and with women.
However it would be desirable to underline that women and men – not confronting camp of the opponents, occasionally declaring an armistice for the purpose of a continuation of the family. Women and men – complementary elements: what one are not able – others are able, and on the contrary. Therefore the mankind is complete and harmonious under condition of interaction fine and its strong half, instead of in the conditions of opposition to one another. Men and women – single whole parts, as coast of one river. And well it to remember, not only reading this article, but also in an everyday life – for example when pulls to tell the next joke about stupid blondes or about «insensible muzhiks».
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